Hail To St. Martha

This blog is dedicated to all those believers of St. Martha, individuals who are Catholics and were born on July 29 (feast of St. Martha) and all the dedicated mothers in the world. This blog is being written to exhibit that there are more inspirational virtues of St. Martha over worrying on the household tasks.

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Wednesday, February 25, 2009

it is so frustrating~~

when i think i was not able to help my child enough so he can pass or he can cope
when i think i am giving him freedom and yet his discovery of the real world is not what he expects it to be
when i think my intentions are for his benefit and it turns out to hurt him
when i think i am being kind but it's not actually helping him
when i think i am training him but he's not happy about it.

let me suffer instead. let me have the pain and the hurt. let me have the failures.
i don't mind. no one will mind. just spare my child.

Sunday, February 08, 2009






Photos of St. John Cathedral using my Nokia N70 during my first trip in KL, August 2008.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

The Sunday Mass at St. John's Cathedral, Kuala Lumpur

Fifteen minutes before eight in the morning and the bells of St. John was tolling hard and strong. As I thread the upside portion of Jalan Tun Lee, my heart was also pounding with such gladness to be part of that Nov. 30 Sunday mass. It was a very beautiful feeling.

I was also delighted to see many Filipinos outside the church that morning~~some ladies selling Filipino food, some were waiting for the 10am Filipino mass. The church was full~~a sight of multi-racial community in one church. There were Indians, Malays, Chinese-looking Malays, Filipinos, Caucasians maybe Americans etc. The parish priest, Fr. James gave a very nice homily that morning of the first sunday of Advent. The church choir had numerous upbeat, fun music that can be well-commended. The mass prayers were also very solemn (i remember they recited the Nicene creed instead of the usual Apostles' creed).


I will never forget that Holy Mass. Such experience was already a great blessing, a gift to me. Believe it or not, it's an experience I enjoyed in Malaysia.

*******St. John happens to be also run by the Lasallian Brothers.

Cathedral of St. John (1883)
5 Jalan Bukit Nanas
50250 Kuala Lumpur
Tel: 03-2078 1876, 2026 2813
Fax: 03-2070 5899

Parish Priest : Mgr James Gnanapiragasam, VG
Assistant Priest : Rev A Amalanathan
Parish Council Chairperson : Mr.Richard Manuel
Saturday Sunset Mass (and Novena) : 6.00pm
Sunday Masses : 8.00am, 10.30am & 6.00pm

source: http://www.archway.org.my/parishes/mparishes3.asp?search=klc-stjohn
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The Telekom Museum is just adjacent to the St. John Cathedral.


~~wearing a beautiful Malaysian blouse! :).......... and visiting the Telekom Museum

Three Places of Worship Along Jalan Tun Perak in Kuala Lumpur

On my second trip to Kuala Lumpur, I have decided to make a pilgrim to the different places of worship. Malaysia is a country known for its mixed races~~ the Muslim Malay, the Hindu Malay and the Chinese Malay. Most of the Chinese Malays are Christians.

The Jalan Tun Perak (jalan for street) is a long, busy road leading to the MRT if you are coming from the central bus station. It is interesting that also threading this path will lead you to find different places of worship. I decided to seek first the famous Masjid Jamek.




Masjid Jamek
is a Muslim mosque, built in 1907. It is huge, magnificent in stature, and has a very peaceful atmosphere. I was told by a Muslim Malay lady that I can go inside. But maybe I came on a very odd time that there was nobody to open the gate for me. Like the other tourists around, I settled myself taking pictures outside. I decided to whisper a short prayer before living the site.


Next is the Masjid India.



Across Masjid Jamek is a long covered path walk in cobblestones leading to Masjid India. Before reaching the nicely built brown temple, you will find the richness of the Malaysian culture. Many stalls and shops are selling various items~~from the Indian pashmina and clothing to the Malaysian tudungs (headscarfs), ethnic and traditional blouses and dresses, abayas for the Muslim ladies and other wide array of accessories and products.

I was not able to go inside the temple because it was closed. Trailing back to Jalan Tun perak, reaching Jalan Tun Lee turning left, you will find the St. John's Cathedral, a Catholic church, one of the oldest in Kuala Lumpur, built in 1883.



I was glad to learn that St. John was open. I met an Indian lady who greeted and talked to me. She was delighted to know I am a tourist and I passed by to visit the church. I had to stop her after a few minutes because she had so many stories. I was able to say a short prayer, thanking the Lord for allowing me to see KL the second time. It was a good way to start my first morning in Kl that day, Nov. 29, 2008.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008


The MOST HOLY TRINITY PARISH in Balic-balic or known to many as Santissima Trinidad Parish was where I spent most of my childhood. The church has a school, the Holy Trinity Academy where I finished my high school some 25 years ago.

During my stay in the Balic-balic community, the school was divided into Girls' and Boys' depts. The Girls' dept was managed by the Salesian sisters of Don Bosco, doing their apostolate in the community. My school days from elementary and high school were memorable, fun, and a lot of learning experiences.

Bits and Pieces About the Cattleya Girls

Avic and Rina, good singers. Sannie, Thiele and Mabel, good guitar players. Maricel, good chess player. Rodena, a good poet. Lei, Dabung and Jodith, very good artists. Aleli and Loy, reliable class officers. Gigi and Daisy, good volleyball players. Chenggot, Beng-beng and Phinie, good dancers. Funny and energetic girls—Lorie, Emily, Jean, Alma O, Anna Liza, Connie, Nanette, Racquel, Mary Ann, and of course, Helena. Not so timid after all— Cristy, Antonette, Anasol, Liberty, Joy, Alma S, Analyn, Lovina, Imelda, Beth, Ida, Liezl, Miramar, Erlinda, Angie (may her reposed soul rest in peace), Anna Luisa, Irma and Bei. And as for me, they say I was the culprit of the recollection exodus. But I’ll just have to put myself in the energetic group—they call me Ghiz way back. 

After Teaching History, She Makes History

I still have recollection of the visual geographic image of the German invasion and the sequence of events during World War II. I think it’s not because of the war films I have watched. It’s because I had good memories of my History class back then. Our History teacher is none other than Sister Celia Tacujan, FMA. She is originally from Canlubang, Laguna coming from a family of professionals. She has a major in English and History and took her studies in the College of the Holy Spirit and the University of Sto. Tomas.

Back in our senior year, she had become a brilliant and dedicated mentor, a source of wisdom. She had also become a listening and understanding parent to all of us. She had so much fortitude to accept and hold the variedness and elasticity of the girls during her stay in Balic-balic.

When we graduated, most of us became her friends. She remained the cool sister and lady we all know of. Just don’t ask her to make an attempt to spill a joke. Those who knew her know what happens next. She is in California at the writing of this paper, attending to family matters.



In the 2nd photo--A photo taken during the Feast of Mary Help of Christians in Canlubang, Laguna in 2000. Shown in the photo are Antonette Paz-de Leon, Mavic Gisala-Pineda, Emely Lopamia-Lacuesta, Sister Celia Tacujan, FMA, Avic Guerrero, Lori Asistido and Sister Leilanie Macoy. Sister Leilanie is a graduate of Batch ‘83.Photos are courtesy of Lorie Asistido.

Remembering Cattleya Over a Cup of Coffee
by Mavic Gisala-Pineda


As I sip my non-sugar Americano with half and half milk, I smile to myself trying to think what to write about my high school twenty five years ago. I don’t know why I’m assigned this task, my field is IT. Perhaps, my colleagues perceive me as a relentless volunteer in the group with a pronounced sense of childhood mischievousness.


There were only two high school senior sections in HTA Girls dept back in the 1980s. The Salesian sisters supervising the Girls dept during that time wanted to take care of the girls better and did not want to accommodate too many students. The sections were named after flowers, Cattleya and Violets.

Cattleya was not the cream section since most of those with the academic achievements did come from violets. But Cattleya was the “meat of the pie”. The girls in this section were so united that they were at par with the French musketeers. When they move, they move as one. It was a character they have built upon. And because of this, they were also able to accomplish good things during that last school year in HTA.

Here are some trivia that exhibits how united was Cattleya then.
The class prepared for their start-of-the-school-year recollection when it was postponed because of a storm that came the day before. The Cattleya class, overwhelmed by frustration decided to call-off their classes that day. Sr. Celia Tacujan, FMA, the class adviser, of course was surprised that her girls left without notice. It’s not just the girls, duh, it’s the whole class!! Cattleya went to boycott the class? No, they just decided to call-off classes after all, they were conditioned to leave for a recollection. So since they cannot have a blessed day, they decided to use up their energies outside the class! Imagine what happened next? Sr. Celia tried to look for the girls. And to her further surprise, nobody admitted who led them to just call-off classes. Every time she asked, a girl would say—“We all decided to leave the class today!”


Linggo ng Wika is a tradition in all local schools. And HTA was not an exception. It actually gave the Cattleya girls an opportunity to show what they can do—write a mini-play, research on historical facts, direct a play, memorize long scripts, act without inhibitions, make bloody and dramatic special effects and follow a time frame. The girls did all of these without a mentor supervising their activities. Sister Violeta Tuazon, FMA, the principal then, was so happy and proud with the performance that she requested the group to present again to the whole student body the play about the 1898 revolution. This time, Sr. Violeta had some wooden bolos made for the performers.


Aside from the sports week, the Cheering competition was an event almost all the girls look forward to. To the dismay of Cattleya, Violets was penalized and prohibited to join the cheering competition. It was only Cattleya-- as a whole class.. as a whole team.. that made preparations for the competition. Composing jingles, making the formation setup, planning for the costumes, cheer dancers making the moves, regular practice and orchestrating all the activities to make it work—these were the tasks at hand. There was no sister or teacher to guide or advice them. Imagine the girls with their shoes wrapped in shining gold foil materials. They had headbands, wristbands and belts glowing in autumn shade. They even had a big UFO as props for the presentation with the big V formation. In a solid voice, they were able to show a performance expected from the seniors. It was awesome!

These were just some of the mirthful stories that made Cattleya the “meat of the pie”. They can move and act as one.. They can all be leaders.. They can be good team players.. 

Sunday, July 29, 2007

CALARUEGA's tranquility..





the photos were taken using my Nokia N70 phone.

A Pilgrim to Calaruega

July 29 is the feast of St. Martha and it's also my birthday. July 29, 2007 fell on a Sunday so we had the chance to escape Manila.

We had the chance to go to Tagaytay (about 70kms from Manila), had a sumptous lunch in Josephine's-- sizzling gambas, seafood boullabaise soup, crispy pata, sarisaring sinugba (sinugba is a Visayan dialect for grilled) or grilled chicken, pork, fish and squid, and of course, not missing the crispy tawilis.

Afterwhich, we headed to Calaruega (my last trip here was back in 1998), located in the boundary of Tagaytay and Batangas. It is situated on the hillside of Batangas I guess. The structure was built by the Dominicans, old brick house, classic architecture, and the place is very peaceful. The place is a retreat house and can also be a venue for weddings or special conferences.


But what is nice about Calaruega is the peace, the closeness to nature, and the nearness of the sky. I feel for awhile I'm close to God. And I'm so glad to be with my family on this visit.

My brother in Dubai called to greet me. My sister in Texas also called to greet me..
And I'm glad I requested my husband to go to this place. I feel renewed just being in this place..

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Unique flora and fauna such as these add to the serene ambiance of Calaruega.

Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Who is St. Martha?

Below is an excerpt from Catholic Online on St. Martha.
Source: http://www.catholic.org/saints/saint.php?saint_id=79

"Jesus loved Martha and Mary and Lazarus." This unique statement in John's gospel tells us of the special relationship Jesus had with Martha, her sister, and her brother.
Apparently Jesus was a frequent guest at Martha's home in Bethany, a small village two miles from Jerusalem. We read of three visits in Luke 10:38-42, John 11:1-53, and John 12:1-9.

Many of us find it easy to identify with Martha in the story Luke tells. Martha welcomes Jesus and his disciples into her home and immediately goes to work to serve them. Hospitality is paramount in the Middle East and Martha believed in its importance. Imagine her frustration when her sister Mary ignores the rule of hospitality and Martha's work in order to sit and listen to Jesus. Instead of speaking to her sister, she asks Jesus to intervene. Jesus' response is not unkind, which gives us an idea of his affection for her. He observes that Martha is worried about many things that distract her from really being present to him. He reminds her that there is only one thing that is truly important -- listening to him. And that is what Mary has done. In Martha we see ourselves -- worried and distracted by all we have to do in the world and forgetting to spend time with Jesus. It is, however, comforting to note that Jesus loved her just the same.

The next visit shows how well Martha learned this lesson. She is grieving the death of her brother with a house full of mourners when she hears that Jesus has just come to the area. She gets up immediately and leaves the guests, leaves her mourning, and goes to meet him.
Her conversation with Jesus shows her faith and courage. In this dialogue she states clearly without doubt that she believes in Jesus' power, in the resurrection, and most of all that Jesus is the Son of God. Jesus tells her that he is the resurrection and the life and then goes on to raise her brother from the dead. Our final picture of Martha in Scripture is the one that sums up who she was. Jesus has returned to Bethany some time later to share a meal with his good friends. In this home were three extraordinary people. We hear how brother Lazarus caused a stir when was brought back to life. We hear how Mary causes a commotion at dinner by annointing Jesus with expensive perfume. But all we hear about Martha is the simple statement: "Martha served." She isn't in the spotlight, she doesn't do showy things, she doesn't receive spectacular miracles. She simply serves Jesus.

We know nothing more about Martha and what happened to her later. According to a totally untrustworthy legend Martha accompanied Mary to evangelize France after Pentecost.
But wouldn't it be wonderful if the most important thing that could be said about us is "They served"?

Martha is the patron saint of servants and cooks.

Interesting site about St. Martha--

Why create this blog?

St. Martha is no ordinary saint. While most saints are vey kind, very religious or very conscientious, St Martha was a real person who cared and worried a lot, served the people in her family and around her responsibly and demanded help and accountability whenever necessary.

I happen to satisfy my curiosity on St. Martha because the story on Mary and Martha were repeatedly read during her feast. In that bible reading, Mary was commended for giving time to listen to Jesus while Martha spent so much time preparing for the food Jesus was about to eat. It was supposed to be St. Martha's feast day. Isn't the reading should tell how because of her strong character and persistence, she was able to convinvce Jesus to go to Jerusalem because something bad happened to Lazarus. It is the same persistence and determination that compelled Jesus to bring Lazarus back to life.

This is the reason I am creating this blog. There are more things about St. Martha's character than becoming a cook. Her determination and persistence helped her brother; made people realize how much she values kinship; and how she pushed Jesus to do the greatest miracle in the bible that not even Moses was able to do.

I dedicate this blog to get wisdom in St. Martha's character, will and love to her family.

updated-Oct. 26, 2005, 9:00pm